I encourage everyone to be completely honest when taking this poll. There are many forms of hurt that can deeply affect us, including:

1. Physical or mental abuse of any kind

2. The loss of a loved one

3. Infidelity

4. Lies and betrayal

5. Deception

6. Causing imprisonment of you or someone close

7. Hurting or harming your children, mother, sibling, or loved one

8. Theft

9. Causing you to lose your job, home, car, or even your family

Be open and transparent—this is a safe space to reflect on the real impact of forgiveness in tough situations. In other words, tell the truth and shame the devil. 😉

When I think about this scenario, my first instinct is to help. I mean, it’s human nature, right? You see someone in danger, and you react. But then, reality hits—this person has hurt me, maybe in ways I’m still healing from. Saving them feels like betraying myself, like excusing the pain they caused. Yet, can I live with myself if I walk away and do nothing?

Pros of saving them: It’s a moment of compassion, showing that I can rise above the hate and the hurt. It’s also a personal victory in a way, showing that I’m not weighed down by grudges or anger. Helping them could even be a turning point—maybe it shifts the dynamic between us. Maybe not, but at least I’ll know I did the right thing, no matter what they did.

Cons: Let’s be real, forgiving someone doesn’t erase the damage. Saving them could stir up all those old feelings of betrayal, and even worse, they may not appreciate it or even change. It’s a risk to my emotional well-being, especially if they continue to be toxic. Plus, part of me feels like they don’t deserve my help, not after what they did. Walking away might feel like finally taking control over what they took from me.

In the end, it’s not an easy choice. I’d probably lean toward saving them, but that doesn’t mean it’s without conflict. Forgiveness is complicated. It’s about doing what aligns with my values, even when my emotions are screaming otherwise.

What do you think? 🧐